LPT Request- How do i speak consisely? I tend to overthink things, and in trying to explain the explanation, i feel less understood. How do i talk to people better? submitted by /u/Mian895

LPT Request: How do you STOP waking up early? A lot of people ask how they can start waking up earlier, and I can relate because I’ve been there too. But now, I’m having the opposite problem. Two weeks ago, I had to wake up at 4 am to catch a flight. Since then, my internal clock wakes me up at 4 every single night. I can’t fall back asleep until around 7, which is when I actually have to …

LPT request: how to survive my wedding as an introvert. I hate weddings or I hate the idea of being part of a wedding. Don’t even wanna say ‘groom‘ it feels so cringe. I’m (m33) fiancé is (m29). I have bad facial scar from years ago and I never publicly stand up and speak, never have, never want to. I want to go to registry office in jeans and just get it done. But that makes me the Bad Guy as fiancé…

LPT Request: How do I stop worrying about what other people think of me? I am 25M so I have been an adult long enough to make my own decisions, stupid or not. However, I worry a lot about what other people think about me including my mother. Things I do or plan to do make me nervous about what they think about me. For example, I surprising haven’t dated til this point, but every time I think about trying to ask someo…

LPT request – How to improve my spelling I’d like to think that my overall English is pretty okey but my spelling is just horrendous. I learned English through various medias such as games and movies rather than in a school setting’s. Also since every online platform has spell checker I never needed proper spelling. Now I need to give PTE and in dire need of improving my spelling. I do…

LPT request: help with a therapist LPT request: I’m sure it’s been asked before but I’m really needing some info / tips on how to find the best therapist. I’m really struggling right now mentally, I feel like I’m falling behind and all my friends are doing what I thought I would be (31f), I’ve also had some past trauma resurface, and I’m just looking for help. I don’t know how to…

LPT Request: How can I simplify my life? Previous and this year have been through a major form of depression. Now working on getting back to normal. Since my memory is not good. Forget to eat, drink water and even normal things. I forget to drink water throughout the day. Many days I forget to walk which is very needed for my health currently. I am working on making systems and simplif…

LPT Request: How to sleep more after my night shifts? I end my night shift at 06:00. At 07:30 I am in bed already and at 07:45 I am usually faling asleep. The problem is that I wake up around 09:30 – 10:00 and I would like to sleep more. I usually recover a bit from the missing hours in the afternoon when I have to sleep anyway so I can get ready for the next night shift which starts at 22:00. I o…

LPT Request: How to fill in down time? If I had lunch at 12pm, get off work at 4:30pm, and am meeting friends for an active sport at 7pm. What are some things I can do to fill in time between 4:30pm and 7pm? Things that I won’t do: *Dinner: because I’ll be having a late dinner, after the activity. *Gym: I need to be fresh for the activity. *Drive: I’m working from home. submitte…

LPT Request how to regain my social skills Due to quarantine in 2020 l’ve practically lost all my social skills, didn’t realise how bad it was until people started pointed out that I’m being rude when I thought that I was being polite. I’ve gotten social anxiety from it(not being out for 6 months due to covid). I’ve also completely forgotten how to talk to people, and how to act in socia…

LPT Request waking up on time Does anyone have any tips for being able to wake up on time. I just started grad school and I’m so embarrassed thaf I’m not waking up on time. I’ve already missed class twice bc I’ll wake up when I’m supposed to be there, and I’m so upset with myself. I swear in the morning I have no discipline or critical thought I’ve tried to use a bell alarm …

LPT request for a renter. Hello all, I’m looking for some help, advice, tips on adding another lock to my front door. A few days ago I heard my landlord in the building, there was a very light knock on the door but as I was sick and in bed I naturally did not answer. There had also been no communication whatsoever about him coming by but I’m pretty sure it was his voice…

Site feedback request Hello everyone, I recently launched an online fishing store that serves both Canada and the US. We’re based in Canada and stock all our products locally. One unique aspect of our business is that we import European fishing gear, like Bolognese rods, which are hard to find in North America. The Situation ​ European Gear: We expected this to mai…

Lpt request: How to be more ‘street smart’? So I grew up in a very middle class area where the most crime that ever happened was a energy drink being stolen from a corner shop. I recently started college and the surrounding area is not the nicest place in the world. My first time out walking in my break I saw about 5 police cars speeding down the road and got shouted at / things thrown at…

LPT Request: How to stop saying “Yes” all the time to favors/requests at work I am somewhat of a “Yes Man” (woman), always have been. In some ways, I think it’s served me well in my education and career so far. I am seen as trustworthy, hardworking, “always ready to go” and always ready to help. However, it’s burning me out! Even when I’m supposed to be on a lighter shift/job, when upper management needs help, they go to…

LPT request How to tell boss you can’t work a shift? Cross-posted in r/workadvice I am starting a second job this week, neither job knows about the other. Unfortunately, the new job has scheduled me for a shift that has the same hours as the other one. I have already requested she move that shift to the next day. However, she wants a reason. Both jobs are liable to fire me on the spot if they find…

LPT request:dating women Hey I’d like help getting better with women no negative comments Ive always been invisible to women If I go on apps don’t have success Have to cold approach hundreds of girls to even get a girl to text me back, this is how I got my only girlfriend a few years ago I’d like to be able to date a lot of girls but I’m not looking to be a player, ju…

Feedback request on my night shot Good day everyone. I’ve just shit a nice harbor/pier. I’ve made two edits and like them both. I’m looking to improve my edits. Please feel free to comment with your feedback. Shot #1 is the first edit. I removed green and yellow in the pier to get the white back. The blue hue in the background I did my best to get rid of. Some dehazing to reduce…

LPT Request: Sweaty Palms I’m in sales and it gets awkward for me when it’s time to shake hands! It’s not I’m nervous, I think it has something to do with genetics.. submitted by /u/dadofpotato

LPT request: I Sweat a lot. I sweat too much! I sweat a lot especially through my face and head. And I mean till the point that people think I’m tense all the time and it’s affecting my social life. To give you a little more context, I am type 2 diabetic and have been an overweight for most of my life (BMI of approx 25-27). I tried using Antiperspirants – currently I’m usi…