LPT Request: how to handle imposter syndrome Hey guys I (28F)have always had some issues with imposter syndrome, and I think this is mainly because of years of bullying when I was a kid (at least age 7-17). Once I went to Uni, it was still present but I was able to ignore it more or just accept that I was an ‘imposter’. But lately, I feel like it is getting worse. I have it at work, becaus…

How do you stay productive while working from home? I recently started working on my own business from home, but for 20 years I’ve been going into work everyday and interacting with large teams. Now it’s only me. Is micro-breaks a thing? And I want to eat ALL THE FOOD! submitted by /u/snwbrdj

LPT request: How to sleep and be comfy on a plane while being tall? Any great tips? I like leaning forward and resting my forehead on the seat in front but if they recline it, my spine is too long to do it. I’ve got big shoulders too and they bump up against the seat mate. Any tips on comfort and plane sleep much appreciated. submitted by /u/VeganEgon

LPT: Am I being too sensitive? work in an office with my boss and three other coworkers who are ladies. Last week my boss asked me to ‘work from home’ ,because her three young daughters are visiting the Office so that they could have a ölace to sit. I really dont know how to process this. (1) i am a POC. (2) My boss has said some unpleasant things about radial minorities and…

LPT request:How do you teach kids not be intimidated by others ? When kids are intimated and insecure they feel like so scared and anxious. I want to teach my little bro how to be confident and strong but don’t really understand how to help him out. I didn’t have mentor or guardian growing up but I want to make him strong yet idk what simple things can I do or tell him to do. He wants to get a iPhone to take …

LPT- Don’t Comment On a Person’s Weight Loss. Don’t tell them how good they look. Don’t congratulate them. You do not know why the person has lost weight. Maybe they are sick. Maybe someone they love is sick or has passed. Maybe they have an eating disorder or are recovering from one. When you want to make a comment on someone else’s body- just don’t. submitted by /u/No-Expression-…

LPT-need help understanding life I don’t understand life… What’s the point of life ? 2 days of freedom for 5 days of slavery. Those 5 days are filled with stress, conflicts and negative emotions… How do people change their life? You only get two days of freedom, and it’s potentially problematic with being burnt out from work. No idea to get out of this rut. I hate my job, but …

LPT Request: How to not be a charisma vacuum? I’ve been going to a couple functions lately and I am really reserved. I try to be outgoing with a few people instead of a big group. I don’t click with people. I wanna change that submitted by /u/Glittering-Sun-4080

LPT Request : How to hate without suffering? I have a person in my social group who I hate. He is the kind of person who would do anything to ruin my reputation if he found out about my hatred. So, I do what a rational person would do: I simply hide my hatred. But everything has a cost, and over time I feel the burden of it weighing on me. I feel like I’m not myself anymore. I’m also a pas…

LPT request:What is the role of advisor in college? Is it true that if you don’t understand what career path to choose, usually advisors will push for business administration or finance? Like why is that? In college whom should we contact if we’re confused about our path. Like the career advising center? I just feel like I need to complete college fast and get a job since my age is hitting me and…

LPT request How Can I Be OK with having visitors to my home? How can I be ok with having visitors? I get anxious for days if I know I am having visitors of any kind to my home. It’s very debilitating and wastes so much time and energy. Help, how can I feel okay and not be anxious for days in the run-up to planned visits? submitted by /u/VeganEgon

LPT Request: how to accept a job (mentally)? Every time i wake up in the morning and have to go to work, i feel like “do i even need it?” (And i do). I think “what if i just don’t go, what if i just don’t need anything, f*ck it”. And i mean, i know why I’m working, i know i need money to survive and pay bills and that everyone’s working and it’s default, but every morning i just hate my ex…

LPT: Don’t put stuff on the floor The floor is rarely the right place to put something Space is at a premium on surfaces, so you will be more likely to choose the same place over time, meaning you will start to remember where you put stuff and become more organized You won’t hurt your back picking stuff up off the floor submitted by /u/Revolutionary_Dog_63

LPT Request: How do you remove shiny iron marks on thrifted pants? These are pants bought at the thrift store and was wondering how to get rid of these scorch marks. The material is made of polyester. I have a steamer if that means anything submitted by /u/crack3rman147

LPT Walked in on co-worker indecent at work. TW. My girlfriend is a farmer. Today, she walked up the hill to ask her male coworker a question and found him standing in front of the company van masturbating to porn on his phone. Outside, 1 PM, weekday, business hours, on the clock. She isn’t sure if she should tell the business owner, which I think is insane. The coworker is an excon sort o…

LPT: If you want to stay out of someone’s business, that includes recommending them. Recommended a buddy for work, just found out he did a not so great job and the person is coming to me as the middle man about what was all done. submitted by /u/thunderbuttjuice

LPT: Buy a Rotisserie Chicken These things are fucking great. Go to your grocery store and Buy a rotisserie chicken. Grab some kitchen gloves and tear that jawn apart. Eat the wing, thigh, and back meat, that’s your lunch. Take the breast and put that in a bowl. Shred it with the gloves, and mix in some hot sauce and whatever seasoning you like. This makes a great filling fo…

LPT request: writing goals down but not working on them I’m not sure if it’s procrastination confusion not understanding what to do or should I do it. It seems like lot of thoughts run at the same time but I write down goals and things I need to work on but I’m not actually doing it and I don’t understand why. submitted by /u/Akashh23_pop

LPT Request: How to avoid someone spying on your phone when using their Wi-Fi? I just remembered how an ex used to snoop on my phone and his friends’ through his wifi. A few years back I was on internship I would send him naughty texts, and he would ask me why I texted him using the office wifi. Second time he found out I was using his brother’s wifi, he took my phone and clicked the option forget the network. I was very …

LPT Request: How to stop brain from wandering while reading. I keep trying to get back into reading, but it’s like my brain won’t let me. I’ll be fine through a couple paragraphs, but then it’s like my eyes will follow the words but my brain goes somewhere else. It takes me awhile to even notice and then I have to go back and find the spot where I stopped paying attention and try again. After awhile I jus…