LPT Request: How to deal with rejection after a serious breakup? Back in May I ended things with my girlfriend of almost 3 years over a serious issue I won’t go into detail about, but needless to say I’ve been devastated and miserable ever since. This was my first real relationship (I’m 23 now and that’s sad) and I genuinely credit this person for saving my life in my roughest moments. I’m slowly starting to …

LPT request :- what to do if you don’t have any goals in life . Bit of info on me :- Im 22M ,studying in university to be a computer engineer . I went through a phase in life where I almost destroyed myself ( drugs , partying , losing relationships , getting unfit , grades dropping, extreme anxiety , depression). I got out of that slump , started working out , started improving my grades,relationships,lifest…

LPT Request: How to get menstrual blood out of mattress? I had a surprise visit from Aunt Flo and my mattress protector wasn’t on my bed yet. Lifted the sheets to find a stain that’s a few hours old. What’s the most effective method of removing the stain? I’m going to the store now, so let me know what I should grab. Thank you! submitted by /u/deleted_username123

LPT Request: What to do about my emotionally abusive neighbors To start, we recently moved into a new house, a duplex with a shared wall. Lo and behold our conjoined neighbors are completely unhinged. They’re a family of two adults and three kids. The adults constantly yell and scream at each other and/or at the kids (oldest is 6, youngest just turned 1). We’ve spoken to our other neighbors and this isn’t …

LPT: How to handle a toxic manager. This, of course, doesn’t apply to every job or every profession, but I’ll speak from my experience (as a software engineer). Most bullying and toxic managers are operating from a place of fear. There could be a number of reasons: Nepotism that comes with expectations Promoted to a position they don’t understand Another toxic manager above th…

LPT request: Need help getting PMI removed from mortgage payment. I bought a duplex a little over 2 years ago and did significant upgrades. I was told that providing proof of these upgrades would be enough to get the PMI removed. Apparently I was wrong. Today my mortgage company sent me this in response: “Currently your LTV is 80.56%. Additionally, your loan is seasoned more than two years. As your loan secur…

LPT REQUEST: How to stop shutting down/speak up for yourself when highly emotional? I’ve always had an issue with vocally shutting down when I’m either highly upset or highly angry. For example, when I fight with my partner I find it very difficult to tell him how I’m feeling/what bothered me/etc. (which I imagine is very frustrating for him). Or like today, someone got very nasty with me at the grocery store when I had done n…

LPT Request: How to become a picture taking person Growing up my family never took photos. My mom hated how she looked in photos so we never took them. I’ve seen a handful of childhood photos. In highschool my friends and I rarely took photos. In college I had a friend who took a ton of selfies and it felt silly at the time. But I’m almost 30 and realizing that I barely have anything as a remind…

LPT How to reset my life, from the point where I am? Single 26 year old male without any kids or big responsibly, no parents and no studies. I have worked in a hotel as a waiter/receptionist since I was 16 years old. I feel very loved and supported, but I know that this is not my life’s work or the money I would like to earn. Unfortunately because my parents recently died, I inherited their new ca…

LPT: Use this phrase instead of “I’m sorry” in a customer service situation: “Thank you for your patience.” It has helped me so much when dealing with clients and customers. Try it. If I am the cause of the issue in the interaction, I honestly appreciate any patience I get. If I am not the cause of the issue, it puts me on the side of said client or customer and I appreciate the opportunity to help… EDIT of course contin…

LPT: If you wear glasses, make sure we can’t see your monitor on Zoom! People’s glasses sometimes reflect things. Was just looking at a coworker. Particularly if you are going to go on other websites during meetings rather than pay attention. submitted by /u/MarketMan123

LPT: How to correctly use “I” or “me” in a sentence When speaking or writing, many people struggle with choosing “I” or “me” in a sentence. Examples: “If you’re interested in the program, please contact Dave and I” (wrong) “Dave and me will be in touch regarding that proposal” (also wrong) The Fix: Eliminate the other person in your sentence and try it again – now which one sounds right? Examp…

LPT request: how to not be tired for several hours at some point during the day For context I’m a college student who has scheduled my classes to fit with my various sleep schedules that I am about to describe. For the past two years I’ve had a pretty horrendous sleep schedule: (generally) I would go to bed between 2 and 3 am and then wake up at like 11 am. During this period of bad sleep schedule, I would be pretty active …

Lpt request: How to be more ‘street smart’? So I grew up in a very middle class area where the most crime that ever happened was a energy drink being stolen from a corner shop. I recently started college and the surrounding area is not the nicest place in the world. My first time out walking in my break I saw about 5 police cars speeding down the road and got shouted at / things thrown at…

LPT Request: How to stop saying “Yes” all the time to favors/requests at work I am somewhat of a “Yes Man” (woman), always have been. In some ways, I think it’s served me well in my education and career so far. I am seen as trustworthy, hardworking, “always ready to go” and always ready to help. However, it’s burning me out! Even when I’m supposed to be on a lighter shift/job, when upper management needs help, they go to…

LPT request: How to minimize pain from spicy food? I enjoy spicy food. A lot. But sometimes, I go beyond my tolerance, and for the 48 hours after eating something, I’m in massive pain when it’s coming out the other end. Anyone have any tips for how to avoid or minimize the pain out back? I recently opted for the “extra hot” at Dave’s Hot Chicken, and am regretting my life choices. submitted …

LPT if you move into a new apartment Immediately pour boiling hot water down each drain two or three times a month to reduce the risk of a roach infestation. There have even been times where I’ve found a roach and poured the water simply for the problem to disappear almost over night. submitted by /u/ticktickboom45

LPT Request: How to flirt and pick up that someone is flirting with you. Header says it all. Wondering y’all could give some examples or ways y’all flirt with someone you just met at like a party. Thinking more in terms of subtle clues more than like straight up saying it bluntly. Appreciate the advice. submitted by /u/Josh_r4457

LPT request How to tell boss you can’t work a shift? Cross-posted in r/workadvice I am starting a second job this week, neither job knows about the other. Unfortunately, the new job has scheduled me for a shift that has the same hours as the other one. I have already requested she move that shift to the next day. However, she wants a reason. Both jobs are liable to fire me on the spot if they find…

LPT fake friend or am I reading this wrong I have an acquaintance that I once considered a friend that has a weird behaviour of never picking my calls or returning them, text messages included until days later and most recently months. But he in turn calls me but only when in need, what are your thoughts on this and how would you handle it. submitted by /u/uncommon-1