LPT: Complacency with an expectation of acceptance isn’t the same as ‘Being yourself’ If you dress sloppily, are out shape, or don’t go out a regularly exercise social skills, changing those qualifies won’t alter your core beliefs, your personality—who you are fundamentally as a person. Actually, your beliefs and assumptions about yourself will change. ‘Being yourself’ and existing in non-optimal state are not one and the same. B…