Just got dumped…need to make quick decisions With partner for 12 years and was just blindsided that he moved out. ALL debt is in my name (yes, I know…stupid). I need to make some past decisions and I don’t even know where to start. Credit card debt – $40,000 (pay 1400 minimum payments). Credit score is terrible. Mortgage and home equity – $139,000 ($1800 payment). Home is in need of major…