LPT: The most effective approach to express dissatisfaction with someone’s actions is to follow up with one or more positive traits about them. Obviously this depends on the gravity of the offense. But by doing so, you preserve their dignity, encourage them to improve, and foster a positive dynamic. For example: “I don’t like when you … I hold you to high standards, and I admire you. This behavior surprised me. Nevertheless…” If their response is negative, it indicates a lack of res…