I’m ready to buy a house, but I also feel too risk adverse, should I listen to my gut? I’ve got 200,000€ in the bank and I make about 6,800€ after taxes/insurance every month not including stock (~30,000€ net per quarter). Financially I feel like I’m in a good spot to buy an apartment especially if my stock continues to pay out consistently. The problem is that apartments where I live aren’t exactly cheap… something like 700,000…

LPT Request: how to be less conflict adverse My default orientation is to avoid conflict. Not in the healthy and sane way that we would hope most people in our society would aspire to but in the neurotic and maladaptive way, as in not being able to tolerate even the mild discomfort of routine types of “conflict” that might occur during work, negotiating disagreements during business transa…