What did you do before it became commonly accepted as unethical? This post is inspired by the riding an elephants thread. I ran with the bulls in 2011, climbed Uluru in 2008 and rode an elephant in 2006. Now I feel bad. I feel like, at the time, there was a quiet discussion about the ethics of the activities but they were very normalised. I also climbed the pyramids, and got a piece of the Berlin Wall as a so…

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LPT: Lonely people, be cautious of those who want to become close friends quickly. Narcissists and users target lonely folks by giving them what they crave – emotional intimacy very quickly. Initially, you will feel great – needed, appreciated, accepted. Once you’re hooked, the bad behavior begins. Ironically, this really starts hitting when lonely people finally get the energy or courage to put themselves out there to meet new people. This lonely and looking is the vibe these toxic types pick up on. Narcissists and users are often attracted to lonely people because what puts others off, they see as an opportunity to exploit. They know the…

LPT Request How can I use a credit card where debit cards are only accepted? My local grocery store only takes debit cards but I’m missing out on a lot of reward points by not using my credit card. What are good ways to leverage my credit card? Also T-Mobile is requiring debit cards/bank accounts for an Auto Pay discount and would like another way around that too. Thanks! submitted by /u/carspn_

I wouldn’t co-sign on a car loan with my boyfriend, now I’m not sure he can afford the payment he accepted. I’m posting this in both communities because I feel each could maybe give me some advice, if it’s the wrong community please let me know and I’ll delete it. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years. We live together and split our “together” bills, so rent (450), electric (about 200ish). I pay my own car payment (230), insurance (14…