LPT: Ask “what” or “how” instead of “why” to understand situations better When trying to understand a problem or someone’s perspective, framing questions with “what” or “how” keeps the conversation constructive. “Why” can sometimes come off as accusatory, while “What can we do to fix this?” or “How did this happen?” encourages problem-solving and open discussion. submitted by /u/RubyJensen94

LPT: Don’t let sunk costs trap you in a bad situation Just because you’ve invested a lot of time, effort, or money into something doesn’t mean you have to keep going if it’s no longer serving you. Whether it’s a job, relationship, or project, recognize when it’s time to cut your losses and move forward. Sticking with something just because of past investment can prevent you from finding better oppo…

LPT: Take care of your teeth – they’re expensive to fix Brush your teeth twice a day and floss regularly. Dental care is essential not just for health, but also to avoid costly dental procedures down the line. Keeping your teeth in good shape now can save you a lot of money and pain in the future. submitted by /u/RubyCooper78

LPT: Limit to-do lists to three (3) tasks When making to-do lists, especially for us ADD-ers, put only three tasks on the list. Make another 3-task list after completing the first. I tend to focus on the easy or fun tasks on long lists, rather than the urgent and important. I also feel better knocking off multiple lists vs tasks. submitted by /u/bh376

LPT Add email address to Android Phone Lock Screen Settings>Lockscreen and AOD>Edit lockscreen Just visited the lost and found at an east coast hub for a major airline. Picked up a phone and was informed they had over 750 phones found on aircraft. No known owners. I added my email address to the lockscreen, so if it has power anyone can access my email address without the passcode. submitte…

LPT: The IRS has a Direct File tax service for 25 states this year. Save some cash! Disclaimer: Only certain states and certain tax situations, but hey – free is free and I for one would love to finally break away from Turbotax. https://www .irs.gov/filing/irs-direct-file-for-free submitted by /u/VestedDeveloper

LPT: Get someone to love the music you love by playing a stripped-down live video If you want to introduce someone to your taste in music, play them a live performance video—ideally in an intimate, acoustic, and stripped-down setting. Choose a song you love that shares similarities with what they already enjoy but offers something fresh. This creates a smoother connection. The raw, personal vibe of an intimate live setting hi…

LPT: Tips From A Kidnapping Survivor (Updated) \repost because my original got taken down* I survived a really brutal kidnapping (barely) and here are tips I would give if someone asked me. 1.) No matter what do NOT let the kidnapper move you to a second location 2.) Try to stay calm; don’t panic. Things get messy when you panic and it gets hard to focus. If you panic, you could be missing i…

LPT: don’t say no to be kind if someone offers you something you genuinely want, don’t turn it down just to be polite!!!!!!!!!!! for the longest time, i had a bad habit of saying no to things that could’ve helped me whether it was invitations, opportunities, or simple gestures like a drink at someone’s house. growing up with social anxiety, i always felt like people were j…

LPT: If someone insists on their offer or offers a second time, even if you find it inconvenient for them, don’t refuse. Obviously this depends on what is being offered. Given there are no issues with your ethical code or no need for the offer, however, allowing someone to be truly generous is both a gift to you and them. submitted by /u/Mike-Anthony

LPT: premium printer paper LPT Not a big deal, but spend a little extra on printer paper if you can. 32 lb is good. If you’re printing documents, etc., it adds heft. Makes it easier to know which paper is yours and just feels more important. I’ve gone through a LOT of estate and legal proceedings and had to print a ton of stuff, commingling with attorney stuff and shuffli…

LPT: Make the annoying ‘rate our app’ messages disappear forever in any app No app can verify that a particular user has reviewed it. After a user clicks the “Review our app” button, all apps forever hide the “review request” message. That’s it. So, if you don’t feel like reviewing an app (for example, if the app is neither good nor bad, but reviewing it would be too much of a service), click the “Review the app” button…

LPT: Struggling to stay focused while reading? Try listening to soft rain sounds—they can help you concentrate and stay engaged! submitted by /u/lvl5warrior

LPT Take the tea bag out of black tea very quickly for an awesome tasting tea! You probably drank your it wrong your entire life. In Germany we drink black tea like it says on the packaging, leave the tea bag in for 5-8 minutes. I always did that. Everybody I know always did that. It makes the tea taste bitter and sour. I never understood how anybody can drink it without loads of sugar. It just tastes awful. Well, turns out, it actually tastes good! It took all my life and…

LPT for people who hate being cold when they have to get up I have an electric heating pad, basically a mini electric blanket. Every morning when I get up, first thing I do is layer my clothes with it and turn it up to the highest setting. When I finish washing up, I have nice hot clothes to put on. Total game changer when it’s cold ESPECIALLY for the socks. Depending on what my clothes are made of, some…

LPT: When working a long shift, track time by how far along you are rather than how much longer you have to go. When you’re an hour into a ten-hour shift, thinking “I’m a tenth of the way there” makes the rest of the shift seem far less daunting than “I still have nine hours to go.” submitted by /u/MJSchooley

LPT: Candles for sex over 40 For the guys over 40 (or hell, 30 for that matter) and looking to have more sex with you wife, I have your fucking answer… candles! If you’re anything like me, your wife has thousands of candles just waiting to be used. She forgets about them and you probably don’t even like them because they smell too much like fresh laundry. But let me tell yo…

LPT: Practice the Box Breathing Technique to stay calm and focused. Box breathing is a simple yet powerful method to reduce stress, improve focus, and regain control over your emotions. Breathe in for four seconds, hold for four seconds, exhale for four seconds, and hold again for four seconds. Repeat this cycle a few times, especially in moments of anxiety or high pressure. This technique helps regulate your ne…

LPT: Keep a Gratitude Journal to shift your mindset and boost positivity Taking just a few minutes each day to write down things you’re grateful for can improve your mood, reduce stress, and increase overall happiness. It doesn’t have to be complicated—just list a few things that made you smile, moments you appreciated, or people who made a difference in your day. Over time, this simple habit helps rewire your brain …

LPT: Motivation is temporary, but dedication builds lasting success Motivation can get you started, but it’s dedication that keeps you going. Instead of relying on fleeting bursts of inspiration, build consistent habits and routines that support your long-term goals. Small daily efforts add up over time, leading to real, lasting achievements. submitted by /u/EvelynReed65