How poor were my choices?
How poor were my choices? Last year, I left a job making ~55k and partner made ~19k. Had a mortgage (1400), 2 car payments (300 and 350), and the normal bills. We live pretty minimalist. The new job was a massive increase is pay, ~185k. I realize how fortunate I was. Partner left her job (she was very unhappy) to be a SAHM for our 2 year old. We bought a new house a few ...