LPT: To find good quality people for your life, don’t just look for someone kind, fun, or generous. Find people with good boundaries – meaning they respect yours and maintain them for themselves. (Details in text.)
LPT: To find good quality people for your life, don't just look for someone kind, fun, or generous. Find people with good boundaries - meaning they respect yours and maintain them for themselves. (Details in text.) This is a subtle and underappreciated feature in the best people you will have in your life. If you feel like you get involved with a lot of complicated, neurotic, or down-right toxic people who seem fine when you get to know the, the difference is often their ability to maintain and respect boundaries. People with good boundaries:
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